I just feel so guilty
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Please help me romanceclass.
I'm 17 and I had been talking to this guy, (the first one I ever talked to like that), and he immediately was honest about how he felt about me and I stalled. I took some time and he sort of grew on me. And just when I had begun liking him more and more, I gave a different guy my number. Thats not the worst part. I started getting to know this guy and he's cool. And then I gave my number to another guy, (who I dont talk to anymore), and then another guy I met after prom (I didnt invite the first guy to prom for some reason) and started (and am still) talking to him. I dont know if the first guy has any idea and all I feel is guilt over knowing and willfully hurting him. I dont know what to do. Should I talk to him (we were never officially boyfriend and girlfriend,but I'm pretty sure he thinks we are)? If so, what should I say? Should I stop talking to the other guys? What if I hurt them too? I never meant to hurt anyone, but I did it anyway. I feel so, so terrible. Please give me advice...
Sorry its so long.
Decide who you like the most and tell him what happened.
Tell him you are sorry and won't do it again.
Hope for the best.
Good luck to you! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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