Will He Come Back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am 24 yrs old and this involves the guy that has been in and out of my life since we were both 15. Well, he finally came back in my life around November of last month and everything was great! I had never really met his mom or dad before and finally got to hang out with them. He spent lots of time with my mom, everything was just so nice. Then it all went downhill. On New Years Day, I found out about another girl he was dealing with. After he was exposed, we didn't really communicate because he was so caught up in her. But, when we did talk, he would tell me how he didn't want to be with her, to let him handle the situation because she was crazy. Well, we hooked back in March and everything was amazing. We made traveling plans, plans to take these Real Estate classes together, and we were both doing the "family thing involving each other." And then what happens...out of the blue, I call him one night and he is back oer there again. I have been calling, and texting him, no response. But, I did talk to him one day and he told me he's just confused. He loves both of us, he wants to be with her a little, but wants to be with me though. He said he was coming over for us to talk the next day, and I haven't heard from him. It's been almost 2 weeks since he's been gone and it's hurting me so much. I can't stop calling him (even though he hasn't returned my calls), and I can't stop thinking about. And I gues it's even more confusing because he seemed so genuine. How he loves our relationship and how we communicate, everything. Will he be back? Or is him not repsonding to me a sign that he wants me to leave him alone forever? Help? I know I shouldn't call as much, but calling and leaving messages calms me. I don't know what to do!
He may come back, but not until he is free from the other woman.
Any guy who wants two women at once is definitely confused. Perhaps you should stop phoning him so he will feel the loss of you. As long as you call, he knows he has you.
Or you could start calling him once a week and tell him you just want to make sure he is ok and that you only want to talk for 15 minutes. If he calls back be sure to keep it to 15 mins and don't get too serious or emotional.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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