Long distance romance
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
hi there! i don't know what i'm doing. usually i keep in contact with him by send him poem on his handphone. but i wont get a single respond from him n i never stop. i dont do it everday but like once a week twice or 3x or 4x a week or never at all in a week.
without fail, every week, once, i dream of him in my sleep.
anyway, like i said, i move on, i got many frens, there are many fish in the sea, yes, i agree, but i feel empty without him.
my problem now, i finally got a respond from him tellin me to stop sending messages to him. and that i send those msgs is late at nite for him, (our country time difference is 6 hours.) and my messages stop his sleep and wants me to delete his number. what should i do?
then 2ndly, i quietly has send him a gift, a cap and a chocolate which will reach to him in about 13-15 days. i sent it last thursday, n today, tuesday. he tellin me this. i feel soooo blank. i dont know. tell me something, george.
He probably has found a new girl.
It is so difficult to maintain a long distance romance. You two have done your best but sometimes circumstances are too harsh for love to thrive.
Maybe when he receives your presents he will contact you. It would be the proper thing for him to do. If he does, ask him if he has found someone new. It would be better for you to know the truth even if it hurts.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com