Things that make me happy but not her
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
How can I get my girlfriend to like something? I always try stuff and alot of things she dont like, but I do. Im afraid if I suggest something she might get pissed off. Is there a way we can compromise or something. I thought for both mates it was do things to please your mate if you like them or not?
You need to have a long caring talk with her on this subject.
She should not feel forced to do something she isn't comfortable with. Compromise doesn't mean doing one thing or the other, it means meeting in the middle and finding ways around a problem.
Ask her if she can think of any alternatives to the things you want to do. She is sure to want to give you pleasure if she isn't forced into it. But some things never become comfortable.
The key to this problem is open discussion.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com