How do I get him to talk alone when everyone is around us
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have a problem with talking to my 21 year old male friend. We are never alone to talk. I feel it is time to talk about how I was disappointed he has A girlfriend and I am willing to wait till his relationship fails with her. There is another issue he has an ex girlfriend who I am very close to that is on our team, they dated two years until they broke up. He told me a week before Christmas he was over his ex I am very close to and she is over him too( I know this because she told me she doesn't have those feelings anymore). I do need to know if he wants more than a friendship and I want to take things further because of a long friendship of five years. He also needs to know I was heartbroken in the past( I don't want to go through another heartache). I am afraid I might get into trouble by getting close to him often.
If you can't get alone together with him then write him a long note and give it to him, or write a long email and send it to him. Or just tell him you would like a chance to talk with him alone.
It is important for you to share your feelings with him because otherwise you will find your friendship faltering because of hidden emotions.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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