its been a year
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
its been a year since we broke up. we only dated for 7 months but i was really in love with him. since weve been broken up weve fought alot, mainly about getting back together and things of that nature. recentally about 3 months ago we decided to stop speakingt to each other. and we realy havent since except we went on spring break together and gave each other a casual hi. neither of us hooked up with anyone and i just never see him anymore. he hangs out with a different crowd then i do and i started seeing soemone else. untill i realized i wanted my ex back and decided i was just going to take some time off from men in general. i really miss my ex and just having him around. i would like a friendship again and i dont think theres much hope for us to get back together although i really would like there to be. i texted him several times and he just ignores me and refuses to speak to me. i saidi was sorry and that i just wanted us to be friends.
is tehre anyway i can win him over and become friends with him and maybe start a relationship again.
please help me with how to get our friendship going again. and then how to path things up to maybe start another relationship fresh if thats possible.
tahnks with all my heart.
Make him a plate of chocolate chip cookies and put a note on them that says "I just want to be your friend."
Or if you don't want to do that, just walk up to him and tell him you want to be friends.
Nothing is going to happen without being friends first so put all your thinking in that direction. All you need is a little crack in the door and he may become your friend again. Don't give up hope because most people want to be friends and you need to keep trying until he gives in.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com