Always find mistakes
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Me and my lover,love each other for 2 yrs.But we met each other befor 4 yrs.We didnt meet each other after we proposed.But he found mistakes on me.Adn almost I try to change according to his wish.But my natural characters exposed out of me without my control.He wants me to change more.I tried to change but i couldnt.he doesnt understand me.I wont talk too much.Most of the time I will be quite.I will tell one or two words when he fought with me.I couldnt bare his harsh words.Even I did or tell a small thing he think it in a different way and convinced me to think it as a mistake.To end a fight,some times I accept it as mistake and ask sorry even it may not be a wrong one.please tell me suggestions to make it smooth our relaionship.
thank you in advance.
Tell him that you are only human and that you do make mistakes.
Tell him you are trying very hard to become more perfect as we all do.
Thank him for giving you advice.
Then also ask him if he is willing to hear of his own mistakes.
If he says no, then ask him why he is different.
A smooth relationship happens when two people share their feelings in an equal way.
I hope my advice is useful to you in India.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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