I Fell For Him and He Flirts back but has a girlfriend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Ok, heres the situation::: for the past four months or so I've had a humongus crush on one of my best guy friends. But he has a girlfriend who lives in another state. Everyday me and him get closer as friends but we still flirt. And it hurts emotionally becuase on my birthday he told me if he wasnt going out with her he would be with me. The problem is he doesnt break up with girls, he feels that if he breaks up with the girl it will make them hold a grudge. It sucks everyday to know hes flirting with me but going back everynight and talking to her ... Today he came up to me cuz i was upset and asked what was wrong , and i told him i'd tell him when i could figure out how. So HOW Do i tell him in essence whats wrong with out offending him and making him think i want him to break up with his girlfriend???
Tell him the truth.
Tell him how you feel about him and that you don't want to break up his romance but you had to tell him your feelings.
That will leave it up to him to decide. My guess is that he will choose you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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