What's your opinion
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Hi im 15 and im a freshman in highschool. There is this senior in my highschool that i am interested in. I dont actually know her and she doesnt know me. we talked once for like 10 seconds and it was friendly. We constantly make eye contact when we pass in the hall though. I get this tingly feeling in my mouth when we make eye contact and its weird but i like it. Shes probably 17 but she doesnt look that old she looks like shes 16 pr 17 and a lot of people tell me i look like i'm 16 or 17 so it wouldnt look wierd i dont think. My question is what is your opinion on how to handle this because what i'm thinking about doing is like just one day being very spontaneous and just going up to her and ask her if she wants to hang out after school sometime or something. I think she is pretty and i would like to date her. in all honesty do you think shed get freaked out or do you think she might say yes. i mean not even like a date, just like hang out and get to know eachother. school is over in like 2 months and if i dont talk to her i dont think ill forgive myself. what is your opinion?
You have nothing to lose and everything to gain by asking her.
Your idea about spontaneously approaching her and asking her to hang out with you is a good one.
Even if she says no, it is good practice for future efforts.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com