I need closure but she refuses!!
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I lost my girlfriend of 3 years, about a year ago, and I'm still not over her, it has driven me to almost commit suicide, Last Saturday I broke my hand from frustration and anger because of her new boyfriend........
I've asked so many times for us to get back together, but then she says that she just can't now, and tells me that she still loves me sooo much and that her heart always belongs to me even though her body belongs to someoene else. I've had a girlfriend after her for about a month but broke it off because I can't love someone else anymore. My question is now..........
Even though it kills me, how can I get her to give me closure for me to carry on, because I can't if I think that one day she might be ready, but it doesn't look like it's going to happen soon and my heart is dying. I've asked her alot to give it to me and she refuses....why?
You are agonizing because she keeps you dangling.
Explain to her how much agony this is causing you and beg her to make up her mind one way or another as a kindness to you. If she won't then you should think about dropping her because she is so unkind.
Meanwhile you need to get some professional counseling as soon as possible. It is terrible that you have come close to suicide and you have broken your hand.
A professional counselor can help you through this painful time in your life.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com