confused about her intentions
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i dated this girl for 2 years we had high ups and low downs but we stuck together. for alot of the time she cheated on me and i cheated on her once when i suspected her doing it and after a while she broke up with me but took it just as hard as i did saying she loves me blah blah blah.......anyways 4 months later we still talk and we sometimes have close moments hugs and kisses not very often though. she tells me one night when i saw her out that no other guy she has anything to do with will ever have her heart because its with me and she told me that she still likes me and not long after our break up told me im the person she wants to marry and have children with. Im confused because she says she has these feelings but nothing happens between us. i have tried working on it from alot of different angles and there doesnt seem to be any change or anything happening. i have made up my mind to wait around for her to have her fun but is there anything else i can do? and does it seem i will be waiting around for her only to have my heart broken?
Ask her out for dinner as friends.
Bring up your relationship and see what she says about her feelings for you. If she still says you are the one then ask if she wants to date again. And, if not, why not?
It isn't fair to you to be kept dangling waiting to find out your fate. Take positive steps toward getting some closure one way or the other.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com