I'm so confused
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have been dating a girl for about a year and a half. We both love each other very much. We recently broke up over a fight that we had. We went about a week with out talking to each other. I sent her a e-mail saying that I wanted to take things slow and talk on the phone and maybe go out one night. She started calling every day. I sent her a text message asking her to go out to eat one night and we did. I also stayed at her house the next night. We had plans on going out saturday shopping. Friday I get a call from her saying that she is headed out of town to the beach for the weekend to meet her sister. I called her sister and asked her about it. She said she had no idea what she was talking about. Turns out she went out of town to see her ex. They talked on the phone on occasion while we were dating, but never saw each other.I just don't know what to do. I think she wants her cake and to eat it to. How should I go about getting her back. This guy is a total creep and cheated on her atleast 2 times, once with her best friend. What do I do?
It does sound like she wants to have her cake and eat it too.
Talk this situation over with her and get her response for the questions you have. How serious is she about this ex? What are her expectations about your relationship? How can you get back into her life?
Her answers will give you help in figuring out what to do and how to do it.
Be patient, open, honest, trusting and caring with her. It just might work.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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