Move on or fight for what you want?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My ex and I just broke up. We had some really good times and then some really bad times. We never got over the past. It was like every bad thing that happened was always brought up in another conversation. We always broke up and got back together. Most times he would beg for me back...this time...we really both ended it and I fought...we got back together for a weekend and then he called the next day saying he just cannot fight anymore. He was out living the single no kids life...drinking ect. He hung out with people from his work and ending up sleeping with her. Through this there was always that hope on both sides...then he thought my former ex had stayed the night and was sooo mad. Yeah! I knew that he cared. But then called me that night to tell me it was really over and there was no hope and now he wants to be with that other girl. He is so confused I know...should I move on and if it happens it happens...or am I wrong to give up when he tried so hard for me?
Since you just broke up, give it some time before making a decision.
Don't take his jealousy too seriously... it is really just "flashback" jealousy. In other words, it's something he's used to doing and can't help it even though he may have moved on.
But, it is really too soon to think of permanently splitting up forever. Give it some time.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com