Patience is a virture
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hi, I have a radio program and this girl contacted the show to get my number to talk. We exchanged TONS of txt msgs to each other and it seemed pretty obvious that she was into me and that I was into her (She is beautiful..based on the pics she sent me)The problem is, we have yet to see each other in person. She was in a car accident and has a neck brace and there seems to be a jerk ex-boyfriend causing some drama. We already said that we want to start a relationship together and she even said that she loves me. (I have not responded in kind)She wanted to go with me on a 3 day trip to the beach, but her parents didnt give her permission. She is 20 and I am 25. I really like her attention, she is seems to be very in love or attracted to me and I am really attracted to her (photos)but should I be worried about this situation? Its only been about 3 weeks when we actually made first contact..or am I just being impatient again?
Since you are 25 and have a radio program you have enough experience to see some problems here.
You've only known her three weeks and already she is saying she loves you... she is in love with your persona... not you. You are attracted to her photos.
How far away from you does she live? Can you arrange a meeting that is less ambitious than a three day beach trip?
Give this a lot more thought before you get involved in something you might not like.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com