Getting back together
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have written to this page a couple times so this has been an ongoing situation. Me and my ex have been apart for two months now but we have never stopped talking. We have had some arguments but have remained friends. I know that she has seen a couple of guys but she tells me none of them compare to me. Now she is starting to seem like she wants to get back together. For example she will talk about things like us getting married and how she loves me. I really do want to get back with her but I have been keeping my feelins to myself and just being more of a friend to her. Her grandmother recently died and her family asked me to be a pall bearer so I was and things like that. I do not want to push the issue. I am just confused because she says all these things to me and does not ask to get back together or anything like that. I also do not like the feeling that she had ended things and now she cannot find someone better than me so she is coming back. I just wonder your thoughts on this situation and what I should do. I love the girl but do not know if I can take her seriously. Thanks as always you guys are great.
Since you love her you should ask her to get back together.
Otherwise you may be writing here again because she found someone new and you want her back. You both love each other so work out the other things.
My advice is that you are worrying too much and need to take action.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com