i lost her i want her back she is with someone else i fear im too late
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ive been with this girl for about 2 years now and ofcourse at the beggining everything was sunshine and blue skyes but towards the end things got very bad and all we did was fight and try and path things back in december i thought it was best for me to walk away from her and see whats out there... but the thing is during the time of me and her not being together she was still always there like we would always talk and we would always be with each other.. untill here about 3 weeks ago she cut off all talks with me and i got concerned so i asked her what the deal was and she told me that she has moved on and was with another guy... hearing that was the worst pain in my life.. what we had was serious and i was a few days away from asking her to marry me... she seems to really like this guy and ive tried things to show her i want her and i can change and still nothing.. she says she cant believe me and i dont know how to get her to... i see now that she is the one no doubt there is nothing better out there but i fear she is too far out of reach how do i get her back and what should i do... im desperate any help would be appreciated
A good thing would be to ask her to be friends.
This would give you opportunities to rebuild your relationship. If she tires of her b/f then you would be in a good position.
If she won't be friends ask her if you could call her once a week for 15 mins to see how she is doing. Take advantage of those few minutes to also let her know you still care about her. Be cheerful and don't dwell on your relationship.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com