What was he thinking after we had sex?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I am not going out with this guy but we are intimate with each other when people are not around. he told me he likes me but is afraid of commitments. He said that he doesnt really know what he wants and anyway...I went to his house and we had sex. I wanted to do it and so did he but after sex, he was a little weird..I knew there was something bothering him but I couldnt figure it out..HE said...hes fine but I know theres something bothering him. Do u think he wont like me anymore now that i gave him what he wants.? What do u think hes worried of? He looked a little weird afterwards. I dont know what to do...He seems fine with me when we saw each other and it wasnt that awkward. Although..I am so attached to him now that I had sex with him. i dont know what to do..Please help me.
It's best not to have sex with a guy that you can't talk with honestly.
Otherwise you wouldn't have a problem... you would just ask him what was troubling him. In fact, that is what you have to do. What was it that made him uncomfortable after you had sex? Was it fear of getting caught? Something else?
Knowing the answer would improve your relationship.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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