Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I did and intern at an Elementary School. The first day I was there the principal kept looking at me and visiting the office i was in. He did this for two months. At first I thought he was just checking on me to make sure i was doing my job. But my Director asked if he wanted to be set up on a blind date with me snd he said, "How old is LaToya." I then started to notice him. He was polite and sweet. I gave him a valentine heart shape cookie as well as sugar cookies and brownies on different occassions. Then on eday he seemed to have a problem and being that i do not know him I thought it was me, so I apologized for not speaking to him. He spoke firmly to me that " He was not even thinking about that." Then left me standing in the hall. That was it for me. I just wanted to finish me intern and leave that place. The next week he stopped coming in the office, but would look through the window in the office. He then stopped me by grabbing my arm firmly and saying," Hey, how are you?" I said, "Fine," and walked on. I minded my business. Two days later we had a meeting which he was part of. He kept looking at me and did not leave when the meeting was over. Later tht day I was invited out for drinks and appetizers with staff members. I went. He showed up. and asked me questions as he did with my Director,eg How old are you? I found out he orchestrated the get together. OOh, yeah before he arrived his staff member , aske : If I would be interested in him." I replied yeah, I think he is nice. I left but asked to speak to him ooutside. He talked about offering me a job if the board approves it. Then he strated talking about his family . I aske if he wanted to be a princiapl . He answered. I gave him a not with m y contact info and my lst day of my inter. Later the next week . I saw him but we did not talk until two days later. I asked if he read the letter. He said yeah with excitement and smiling. I said well can we do that. He said sre with a smile on his face. I didn ot see him the next week because we were busy. My last day I did not talk to him, but left a note in his box about likeing it there and calling mye on Friday, and since he like my cooking let me know and I will cook for him. Friday -no call, no calls the entire weekend. he then told my director he was very busy that weekend. I had to go to the school on Wednesday to get my evaluation. He looked in the window and talked loud so I could hear him. It was distracting because my Director kept looking at the door. I did not. I saw him the next morning coming from my part of town. I texted him that I saw him and doe she og ther often. He said only as needed or neccesarily. I said that is good to know. Still he never intiated contact, so I just texted him if that weekend or another weekend he would like to go to the movie? He never responded. I let him alone. My Director called last Friday. I told her he had not called. She said well he did say he wantedt to take a few days off. She said he seemed interested maybe he will call next week, that is SPringbreak. I believe I did wnough. He seemed interested a lot. He always followed and stared at me. Now never intiated any contact. I am busy too but if he wanted to call for a minute he could find time. I am just leaving him alone. What do you think of his action? It does not go together. It is weird.LaToya
You are right, it is weird.
My advice is to stay away from the guy. Something is not normal with him and you don't want to get involved with it.
The only other explanation is that he is very shy... but he already proved that he isn't shy. So that leaves him as being a weirdo.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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