how to get over an ex when I need to know why he lied,if he did
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I need to know how to get over an ex of 15 yrs who is 26, 10 yrs ago I fell for him and didn't have the guts to tell him because I was afraid of rejection. One year later I saw him while I was working at the mall where I live, He stops by me to talk and say hello, I told him how I felt he said he cares about me and he told me he would go out with me again. Weeks went by he didn't say a word to me, he made me jealous and angry by talking to another girl(I was angry because I was on my break and a week before I told him I was mad at him and he said he would meet me to talk and he didn't want to hear what was on my mind, I heard he called me a freak and he doesn't like me at all). Then I found out he was quitting his job at one of the restaurants at the mall which he got weeks before. So he left me without saying goodbye which hurt so bad. I saw him a couple times during the summer of 98 And then again in febuary of 2000 after that I never saw him again. Please help
You should seek professional counseling.
You have been suffering too long and it would be good for you to talk to someone who can spend time helping figure out your feelings.
The guy you described sounds like a real jerk.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com