what should i think?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ok well i have a freind, a very close freind as she calls me, possible a best freind. i met her about 7 weeks ago so things are still early days. anyhow from the start we always got on well, she constantly said how much she misses me and enjoys my company, she buys me gifts, she makes me pictures of herself on her pc for me and genualy cares which is evident as lately i have been ill.
Ok well the thing is she seems to go through mood swings, sometimes she hardly wants to talk to me and keeps her distance and others she is all over me, and lately she surprised me with a meaningful snog, which was 2 weeks ago.
When i asked her if i could kiss her the time after that she said ok and then quickly backed out, when i asked her that nite y? on msn she said because were freinds and mates dont kiss although she assured me she wanted to.
Now sometimes she flirts with me constantly, she has called me hot, lovable etc. so i made a slight move on her, she has a lot of pressure from work, and her x bf so i simple said i really like her. as that is less pressure than saying i love you and she said i like u too but im not looking for a relationship and blamed her x bf who randomly pops round her house uninvited and herrases her, now i now that she has a lot to think of with her x bf and probably genuinly doesnt want a relationship but im jst curoius whether or not she has feelings, i dont mind being patient, i just wana kno if i have a chance and if anything what to do nxt? cheers guys.
She likes you but isn't ready for a relationship more than friends.
She likes to flirt and especially with you. You haven't spent much time with her yet, so let things go on the way they are going now and you will get closer with her and she will probably be willing to be your g/f.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com