Is it too soon?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Me and my girlfriend (I'm a guy, 13) have been seeing each other 3 weeks. We haven't actually gone anywhere or done anything except hug at my place. I'm worried about not having any place to kiss or when to kiss if the moment comes. This is my second girlfriend and I have never been kissed. She has had one boyfriend, that lasted 4 weeks but i doubt they kissed. We've never talk about it and I think it would be a little akward for us both. The main issue is where can we get away from parents, yet be in a comfortable, romantic setting? HELP!
Try going to the movies or a walk in the park or by a river.
The first kiss is always the most difficult. One approach that works is to tell her "I'm going to kiss you" and then do it. That way she has enough time to be ready and enjoy the kiss. Also kiss her on the cheek and neck, it is very pleasant.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com