They ALL like me.

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
Hey, i dunno if you can help me with this but i might as well try.

I moved house about a year ago, and i met a whole new crowd of friends at school. The thing is, amongst these friends there are/have been a few girls i've liked a lot.

Well every time i ask them out, its always the same answer.
"Your a friendly guy and a great friend, i really like you as a friend. But i like someone else... sorry."

Also, every time its always the 'cool' guys, well, the sex-obsesed, thick, im the best, kinda guys.

Im not particlularly bad looking, and as above i do think im a real nice guy. (e.g. i treat everyone with the same respect, -except maybe neds...-).

What should i do? It's really depressing to be rejected because im a nice guy. I've only had one girlfriend since i moved a year ago (she asked me) and well it wouldnt be fair to say how that ended.

...? Advice
My advice is the usual.

Keep on trying, your luck will turn one of these days.

Meanwhile do all you can to look attractive to girls.

Have good hygiene (clean fingernails, brushed teeth, nice haircut), good looking clothes (look at the popular guys and wear what they are wearing), act nice (which you are already doing), work out and maybe join a school sport team.

All these will make you more attractive to girls and they will be more likely to say yes when you ask them for a date.

Good luck! George

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