How do I get her back???

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I was talkin to this girl for a year and she decided right before new years to break it up cuz she felt it was gettin boring and she didnt know whut she wanted. The time we were talkin, she would say how much she loved me, and she wanted kids with me, etc. We keep mild contact like a couple phone calls a week, but 3 weeks later, I find out she talkin to another guy. I write a letter to her, but it doesn't seem to affect her cuz she tells me "why am i trying so hard", and "things are different now". I still love her a lot, and I know she still cares some what at least a little cause she still brings up my name in conversations at least a couple times a week. It's been 3 mos. and the situation hasn't changed, but I dont know if I'm doin something wrong. We still talk maybe once a week, and if we do, it's for like 10 min. What am I doing wrong?? the guy shes talkin to is a loser!! doesn't work or go to school!! PLEASE...any advice on how to get her back would help a lot!! Advice
She has obviously lost her feelings for you.

If you want to pursue her then continue what you are doing right now. Keep open the channels of communication. Make sure she understands that you still care for her a lot but don't dwell on it.

Give her time and perhaps she will find her way back to you.

Good luck! George

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