what is up with her?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hi..i dated this girl for 4 months we broke up 2 weeks ago because he stayed the night at this guy's place which she met that same day but she keeps telling me nothing happened. i was pissed coz we havent seen each other for a month but before all of this happened but it was ok before the break up we always talked on the phone for hours..after we broke up she started dating that guy and he's rich. we havent talked for a week then she sent me a text asking if i still have feelings for her so i told her that she means the world then she asked me where do we from here..i told her how much i love her and she replied "i wish i had the same feelings for you coz youre an awesome person"..
i was really hurt coz i didnt know what se's trying to do the next day she asked me how i was doing and told me to call her.i didnt, but later that night i told her am trying to move on and her keep tellin me all those stuff doesnt really help. she keeps talkin about that guy and tryin to make me jealous but i didnt act i was. then she sent me an email saying "i wont be talkin/texting you for a whil..i guess i moved on and so should you". but the next day she saw my profile on a personals site and she found out i was gettin close to one of my friends then i got another email from her saying "i thought you dont jump to another relationship to get over the last..i guess im not a distant memory after all"..
what is she trying to do??i still love her..i want her back..but i dont want her to play with my feelings..and the sad part is im trying to get over her..
Sounds to me like she is being honest with you.
Take what she says as an effort to communicate but not an effort to hurt you on purpose.
You are right, it is time to move on and I hope you are able to do that.
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Good luck! George
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