Help how to get him back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Ok well i talked to his friend friday and he said that they are friends and that the other stuff is not true. Well man so called called me yelling about it. Man i believed it. So we fought 3 calls and then it was no more us, good by.. Well two hours later he called me 18 times and text me. He went out looking for me. I didnt make any notition. Well Sat i ran into my co called. He said that they are just friends, what i cant have friends. I explained why i was mad. He said teh friend wants me. I told him to wake up on us, He said look at teh living situation. I said i know you have nothing wake up. He said they are just friends, that is why he can text her or go to lunch. Kept saying it like we were more then friends. I asked what he wanted and he said i dont know other then i dont want to loose you, or i wouldnt have blown up. But there is were i am like ok. He doesnt want to loose me or he wouldnt have called in the 1st place, and when we were done he wouldnt have called back 18 times and text me.
His friend said that he was going crazy calling me and me not answering he thought he lost me. His friend said to wake up. He wants me but right now he cant and wont due to living situation..
But when I asked what he wants in the future he says I donít know. But I guess I am in it.,
I stopped calling now and the friend still calls me. What to do,
We have been on and off for 5 years. I moved out a week before wilma so we could save us, we didnt break up. We talked everyday until the hurricane and then boom he lost everything and has been living with 6 people every since. Help
Give your ex a call.
Ask him out for dinner. Have a long chat, gently and honestly telling him you feel about him and how you would like things to go.
Hopefully he will be equally honest and you two can figure something out.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com