What to do...
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I am in love with this wonderful girl. It is my first love and im having jealousy issues. She is in highschool and im in college. i see her on the weekends. i know its right for her and i to have opposite sex friends and i dont usually feel jealousy of her guy friends. But since we started dating 4 guys have told her that they want to have sex with her. The first guy was a friend, the second was just a guy she knew, the third has been her friend for years and is called her "brother", and the fourth is the guy she is going to prom with. She hangs out with other guys a lot because she gets along with guys easier. She also hangs out with that fourth guy a lot. he paid for her to go to a movie and the hang out at his house once every couple weeks. this is usually friday night while im at work. I just dont know what to do. I trust her... but i dont trust him. I dont know... should i feel this jealous to where i lose sleep at night?
Yes, you are right about trust.
A good relationship is based on trust. You don't love her enough to trust here fully. Nothing wrong with that... it takes times.
Continue trusting her and your jealousy will gradually go away. Meanwhile fight against the jealousy like an enemy which it is.
Here is a good website on trust: http://www.coping.org/growth/trust.htm
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com