Why his place....
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I recently met a very shy guy, and we've been emailing each other. We haven't officially met and had a conversation in person yet. We've seen each other in person though.
I am very confused with how he wants to meet me. Instead of asking me out for a cup of coffee, he keeps asking me if I'll come by his place, even in mid afternoon. He keeps saying i should come by and say hi. When i suggest somewhere else, he says ok, but then he always goes back to asking me to come by. And, I'm the one who had to call him first, he wouldn't call me first.
I don't know how shy he is, but I am confused with his behavior. Why is he insisting that i go to him? What should i do?
Just explain to him, nicely, that there are too many loonies in the world for you to meet him for the first time at his place.
Suggest, again, someplace for coffee or drinks or even dinner.
Don't take chances! George
-- from George
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