Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have been chatting with this guy I met on a dateing website for over two years now. We have developed a wonderful friendship that I treasure with all my heart. My problem is I really like this guy alot and think about him often. But I have no clue if he likes me it's so hard to tell when you just chat on the internet. I have had some strong feelings that he does like me but again I am not to sure if I should trust my gut feelings. I want to ask him if he likes me but I don't want to scare him off I really value our friendship so scareing him off is the last thing I want to do. I am just wondering if their are any sines or tips that I should look for that he might be interested in me the next time I chat with him. Or should I trust my guy feelings that he does
I would really apperciate the help, Thanks a bunch
You can be sure he likes you if he's talked with you for two years.
Sounds like you two are both shy and afraid to bring up feelings.
Why not say to him that sometimes you have romantic feelings about him and does he ever have similar feelings? This is not threatening, just conversational.
But it is likely to lead to more discussions and then...
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com