how do i make this work?Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I care about this girl very much. I have known her for about 7 yrs, but we have only been close for about 3yrs. The problem that we are facing is we recently discovered that we are in love with each other, but we live 2 hours apart and both have lives we cant leave. We both care about each other very much, but do not know how to make it work. Last night she came to visit and it was nice. We hung out with her and her friends. The night was nice because at no point were we all over each other so to speak. You could tell that we were just happy to be around one another. The only thing we did was kiss a few times and layed together. It was nice to be around someone because you wanted to, not because you wanted to get some. You could tell it was love not lust. I guess what im asking is, do you think it can work, and how do we make it work. We both have talked about it, but do not know how to make it work.
Here is an answer.
You are stuck because you live two hours apart.
You both want to be together since you love each other.
Suggestion: find a place half way in between and live together. An hour commute isn't too much.
If that isn't going to work, both of you should start working very hard to relocate close to each other.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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