does she like me or my best friend

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i really am confused and have been so 4 almost 6months u c i have a g/f but sumtimes it doesnt even seem it bcuz sometimes when we are cuddling and etc she will do this thing with my friend alex its like they look dead in the eyes and then my gf will sa ok lets go as in lets go have sex and he gets up like hes serious and she says im jus kiddin and like they hug ALOT! sometimes more than me and her do and im finding out stuff like that last summer she got fingered by my friend cuz me and my gf werent going out yet but he always braggs bout that and my gf gave him a h/job but it wuz truth or dare but i dont know i just feel cheated and like the 3rd wheel and after i leave i always think that they are flirting and making out i dont know if im instigating or its 4 real but im in desperate need of help please 4rm:Confused Advice
One very important part of a good relationship is trust.

You should have a long caring and honest conversation about this problem. She should understand that some of the things she does make you uncomfortable. And, if she doesn't know it, it is time to tell her.

While you are at it, ask her if she feels uncomfortable about you any time.

Good luck! George

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