I NEED HELP
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
OK IVE BEEN WITH THIS GUY FOR 10 MONTHS AND THE FIRST 2 MONTHS WERE GOOD UNTIL I FOUND OUT HE CHEATED.I FORGAVE HIM AND THEN WE JUSS MOVED ON..THIS GUY WAS MY FIRST BOYFRIEND AND THE FIRST PERSON WHO I EVER FELL IN LOVE WITH AND I WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR HIM BECAUSE HES MY WORLD JUST LAST MONTH WE BROKE UP BECAUSE HE SAID WE LIVE TO FAR APART AND I BARELY SEE HIM ANYWAYS AND HE SAID I DIDNT DO ANYTHING TO HIM TO MAKE HIM MAKE THIS DECISION BUT THE DAY AFTER HE BROKE UP I FOUND OUT THAT HE ALREADY HAVE ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND THAT QUICK AND THAT HURTED ME REALLY BAD HE CALLS ME SOMETIME TO SEE HOW I AM BUT IT CRAZY THOUGH BECAUSE HE GET MAD IF I GO OUT WITH ANYONE OR IF ILL START TO GET ATTACHED TO ANOTHER MAN AND I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I LOVE HIM BUT IM TIRED OF BEING HURT BUT ON THE SAME HANE I REALLY WANT HIM BACK SO BAD.AND NOW THAT WE BROKE UP I KEEP DREAMING ABOUT ME AND HIM AND US HAVEING KIDS AND I CANT GET OVER THIS HE TELLS ME HE STILL LOVE BUT I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMOREBECAUSE I CANT SEEM TO GET HIM BACK BECAUSE I LOVE HIM SO MUCH I PRAY EVERY SINLGE NIGHT BECAUSE I BELIEVE HE IS MY TRUE LOVE
You live a long way apart, you've broken up, and he has a new girlfriend.
These are not good signs for you relationship.
Take advantage of those time when he calls you to let him know that you still care for him but don't drag up your prior relationship. If he doesn't call for a week then you call him and ask how he is doing.
That's about all you can do except pray.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com