What shall I Do?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I've known this guy for about 6 years now. He's alot older then me but I dont care.
The first time I saw him I knew I felt something for him but my feelings started to grow and now I can't stop thinking about him no matter how hard I try not to. We're very good friends and know each other very well and I think he know's I like him as he's heard from everyone else but I don't think he likes me. He's married and even though he is, I still cant stop thinking about him. I'm not jealous but it's hard to let go of someone you love so strongly and they're with someone else. I'm pleased for him but I wish he knew how I feel about him but I'm worried if I do this our friendship will go down the drain and it would be awkward for the both of us. I don't know what to do.

RomanceClass.com Advice
It would be nice if you could get some professional counselling.

You are not being helped by this situation.

My advice is to cease all contact with this guy and put all your effort into overcoming your feelings for him.

This won't be easy to do but it is the best for you and him both.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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