Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am at a loss. I really miss my ex, we still get on well but he has a new girlfriend. He has been having problems with her and I gave him advice - I said if she is worth it then stick with her. He obviously has and now I see them together a lot. However, she doesnt seem like a nice person and everyone says that I am far more attractive. I told him a while ago that I miss him but he skirted around the issue. now its all I think about but I dont know how to get him back. Im not sure if he is happy or not. He seems really happy to see me sometimes and he always looks at me in classes and stuff, but maybe he is just concerned as I have had personal problems recently. I just really want him back. Im afraid Im always going to feel this helpless.
Stick to your plan.
You want to stay friends with him and let him know you care about him.
You can't and don't want to try to break him up from his girlfriend.
Perhaps he will tire of her and be back with you again. Be low key.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com