tell her my feelings

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there is this girl that i like for a while and we get along great. i want to tell her that i liked her but i'm am too shy to do so. also she is in the 8th grade and i'm in 10th. but our age difference isn't that much of a year. i heard that she likes me but not sure. my friend said he would tell her but forget. i was thinking of writing her a letter telling her my feelings. should i write one? what can i do to let her know in a way that she won't freak out in case she doesn't feel that same way. i know its a possibly that she doesn't. i don't want to lose her as friend. thanks in advance Advice
Yes, writing a letter would be a good thing to do.

Explain, in the letter, that you are too shy to tell her directly. Tell her that you are "beginning to develop feelings" for her. That phrase should not be too threatening to her.

Ask her to write back or talk to you in person if she is more comfortable that way.

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