Is There Something Wrong With Me?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
I'm kind of confused...I'm fifteen and have never had a boyfriend. People tell me all the time that I'm good looking and that I have an attractive personality. Guys tell me personal things and have also told me that I would make a great girlfriend and just would be fun to be with. So that's why it doesn't make sense. Some people say it's because guys are intimidated by me and think they're not good enough for me but I don't know. I had a guy friend last year who I really liked and he liked me back. He was the type of guy who would ask a girl out without feeling nervous or being afraid of rejection. But then he liked me and didn't tell anybody which he usually did but he told my brother that he liked me. My brother told him to go for it but he was afraid of my reaction which confuses me.
Is there something wrong with me?
I imagine you are quite normal.
The thing to do is to ask guys out. That way they don't have to feel nervous about how you will respond.
Ask them to go to the movies, or on a walk, or to a school event.
Once you start dating one guy, the others will be lined up for you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com