she s saying no...always..

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plz giv me an answer quick..v luv each othr very much n talk exyensive on d fon.. perhaps much close v r.. she tells everything to me nd me too.. sometimes v can go for whole night talking on jus nothing.. simply.. very often v kiss ovr d fon..she ll say she wants to b vth me.. but things go totally changed at day time hihi.. dats wen v see in d college.. she wont smile even.. nd once i asked her for an outing on her birthday.. she refused.. i thougt she s afraid of our frenz catching us(no one else knows our relation..)so i suggested a distant place nxt time and then tooo NOOO.. wat to do.. is she jus nagging me.. shud i stop vth her.. wats ur opinion.. Advice
My opinion is that you should bring up this topic in one of your long talks.

Be caring, understanding, gentle but honest and tell her you don't understand why she treats you so differently in person and why you can't go out together.

She is probably eager to discuss what is going on in her head and you can help her say it.

You might not like her answer, but at least you will have one.

Good luck! George

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