Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I was thinking while trying to get to sleep one night... (as i do...) and i came up with a thought that my 'bad luck' with the opposite sex could have a lot to do with the fact i feel uncomforatble with touching other girls... i.e. the brush the hand thing is fine, but prodding them (apparently im not allowed to say Poke anymore HA!)... i just cant bring myself to do it.
Got any tips how i can relearn to be more comfortable with it?
Fear of prodding -- an interesting problem :)
I suppose you mean sticking your finger into the girl's ribs to make her laugh.
You could say "what a lovely dress you have on" and point to her ribs and lightly touch her there.
But a better approach would be to start with hugging, holding hands, kissing on the cheek.
Good luck to you! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com