It's like we never broke up
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend of nearly 2 years and I broke up about 5 months ago, we both saw other people but it didnt work out. About 3 months ago we started to talk and see each other again. It was like things were before, its like were still together. But whenever I bring up that I want him as a boyfriend he says that its all up to me and he has to wait and see what Im going to be like. He swears there isnt anyone else and I believe him. He always says that Im all his but if I say that he'll say something like Im not your boyfriend. I love him so much and this is bringing such stress to me. I just want him to be mine again cause everyday I start to second guess him and his intentions although I know that they are good and he doesnt want to get hurt just like I dont. I still do little things for him like bring him soup when hes sick or give him a wake up call. And sometimes he will for me, but other times hes too busy for me and wont make plans even if he has nothing else going on. Please help! Im running out of ideas.
It sounds like you are doing a lot to try to encourage your romance.
He isn't however and the stress doesn't help your relationship.
Try having a long, deep, loving, honest conversation with him and find out more about what he is thinking. He really isn't being fair to you and you need to talk it out with him. Find a good time to do this. Maybe go out for a nice dinner and then just drive around and talk.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com