She said I looked better than the best looking guys..

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
In one of the phone calls, she was denouncing every single guy in the year... Called the best looking guy ugly, his best friend's hair looks like sh*t (In precisely the same phrase) and the say that guy doesn't care for anyone, or this guy is selfish.... And I asked "What about me? I think I look the same as good as (the best looking guy...)" and she said "No! You look so much better"

Its nice to see all the guys to be put down by the girl you like... but this seems so exaggerated it is hard to believe even though her tone didn't seem sarcastic...

In school, all we do is say hi to each other, never have face-to-face conversation, because she is always with her friends. My friend told me that to approach a girl... its not only about courage, but about the ability to lose face as well... is that correct? and Is it alright if I just go and sit with her circle of friends (and then just keep sitting there, doing homework...)? How do I talk to her more... face-to-face? That is so much more enjoyable than talking on the phone... Advice
Sounds like you are doing very well with her. Keep on doing what you are doing.

If you want to talk to her in person, just explain it to her on the phone and you two can figure out a solution. Maybe you can go out walking in the park or by a lake etc. Maybe you could hang out at her house or your's.

That would be a better approach than trying to approach her in person.

If you want to sit with her and her friends that would be ok but perhaps too obvious.

Good luck! George

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