WHY IS THIS STILL HAPPENING TO ME?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ITS GOING TO BE 7 MONTHS SINCE MY EX BROKE UP WITH ME. WE SPENT 2 YEARS TOGETHER, IN WHICH I GAVE HER THE WORLD, LOVED HER LIKE THERE WAS NO TOMMOROW, AND DID ANYTHIN AND EVERYTHIN FOR DAT GIRL. SHE THEN BROKE UP WITH ME DUE TO HER EXCUSE OF NOT FEELING THE SAME OR NEEDING SPACE. AFTER 4 1/2 MONTHS SHE STARTED DATING THIS NEW GUY WHICH SHE NOW SAYS SHE LOVES. IT HURTS ME TO EVEN HEAR ABOUT HIM DUE TO THE FACT THAT I LOVE THIS GIRL AND THINK I ALWAYS WILL, I FELT TRUE LOVE FOR HER AND CANT SEEM TO GET OVER THE FACT SHE MOVED ON. I CANT EVEN BE AN ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP CUS I END UP HURTIN THE PERSON CUS I STILL LOVE THIS GIRL. WHY IS IT THAT I CANT GET OVER HER EVEN AFTER 7 MONTHS, WHY IS MY HEART STILL SUFFERING, AND 15 MINUTES A WEEK TALK THING ISNT GOING TO WORK WITH HER BECAUSE I TRYED THAT AND SHE TOLD ME SHE CANT BECAUSE SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND. WHAT DO I DO?, HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO FEEL?, WHY IS THIS HAPPENING TO ME?, IS THERE ANY POSSIBILITY I WILL EVER GET HER BACK AND GET THIS PAIN OUT OF MY CHEST FINALLY?
There is always the possibility that you two will be together again.
If that is meant to be, it will happen.
Meanwhile, however, you need to assume the worst and try to get on with your life. Maybe, when you think of her you should tell yourself "That was beautiful, but it is over." After telling yourself that 100 times maybe your emotions will start to change a little bit. Once you can take that step and move a little bit away from her then the other steps will be easier.
Hope you will find someone new who makes you happy! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com