What do girls want?Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi Geroge, its me again. A few things happened since my last advice. Remember I said something about A* going to this guys place heaps? Well thanks to my little advice, they started going out and totally into it.Should I feel proud?
Well here's what happened, 2 weeks ago, me and A* were txting each other, she said she had her eye on someone and I said, 'why don't you give D* a chance?'(D* is her current bf). And moments later, D* started txting me using A*'s phone, and he was asking for advice and stuff. I told him to relax a little and he did and I told him he's on his own now. Then they kissed and stuff. Surprisely it didn't hurt me at all.I was totally cool with it. Then me and A* and D* too are like mates. D* is kinda like a little brother to me coz he's younger and I always want a little brother, and me and A*, sometimes she can be a big bossy sister(she's older than me by a few months). Which feels a bit weird coz it feels like my brother and sister are dating, oh yuck...Anyway, they are having fun, but here's the thing, A* always tell me about what they did together and stuff, always want to talk to me about pretty much everything.Which can be a bit annoying, and she always find some excuse when I say spend some more time with D*.And D* is telling me about how much he enjoys spending time with A* and etc. The thing is I don't want to be part of their relationship. Its THEIR relationships, nt mine. How come they keep doing that?
And me and B*, well I can't take it, I haven't seens her in 3 weeks now, we barely talk apart from txting each other last wkend. And she still txt me and said that she loves me, but I said I only want to hear her voice, she saying it in person, or at least call me for once. And also she has a problem with some1 stalking her, what should I do to help her?
And lastly, you remember a girl called S* form last year, the girl who said she likes both me and my friend. And now she says that she likes me and want to ask me out, but I don't feel the same. I guess I'm too nice to tell her that I don't feel the same and I know she still txt dirty mesages to my friend(coz I saw them, my friend showed me), but she said she didn't. I think she has a honesty problem, what should I do?
p.s. sorry for the long essay, but please help me. And thanx
Tell A and D to stop bugging you with their adventures.
Tell B more about how you feel and share your feelings with her. She is the best choice for you. Give her your best advice about the stalker.
Tell S that you like her as a friend but nothing more.
Good luck! George
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One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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