He doesnt know what he wants
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hi...This boy said that he likes me..he took me to the park and we were close to each other and he kissed me a lot and we were passionate with each other. He told me he likes me but doesnt want any commitments. I dont know why and he isnt sure either. But He said he wants me..I dont know what to do. He told me he likes me, kissed me, was passionate to me. He even invites me for coffee sometimes..hes always around me, he wants to talk to me a lot. Okay, he likes me but I also think that he only wants sex without emotional attachments because If he likes me enough then he would have asked me out. I dont know what to do with it. Im so confused. I love this guy and everyone can see that he likes me back but then I dont understand why he hasnt. Do you think he only wants sex? Do u think i shud talk to him? I dont know what to do. Please help me. xxx
Have a long honest and caring talk with him.
Tell him you are worried that he only likes you for sex. Tell him you would feel better if he asked you out without any really serious commitments.
Once you are going out, if you and he get along, then you can begin to work on strengthening your relationship and commitments.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com