i dont want to ruin wot we have!!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hi! OK me and my gf have been datin for more than 3 months now! things were really gd we have fun and everything! do u think that a relationship isnt normal if its juts good times that we share and not bad times almotst at all??
somethin else i would like to say... everyday at school during brakes me and my gf go and sit outside and for a while now her best friend and a friend of mine come there with us coz we are all english (well im half english) nd it used to be fun but lately its really annoyin me coz we dont get ANY privacy and with those 2 there it doesnt feel like we are a couble in a romantic relationship coz our 2 friends most of the time they talk bout sex and the hall romance is ruined! the part that really botheres me is that my gf she is sooo kind polite sweet and innocent and her friend is almost the opposite she talks dirty and stuff. and wen she talks bout sex and stuff( dirty stuff) my gf seems to laugh and just havin a gd time nd im afraid to say sumthin else to change the subject coz she might be bored .. i dont want to talk to her bout this coz then she might loose her best friend and never 4give me! or wot will happen if i tell her this and she says its ok and i see that she is changin her attidude opposite 2 me? shall i tell her my worries that i dont want her to be like her friend! PLEASEEEEE people help me coz it has been bugin me for days and i cant decide what to do !! i dont want to loose what we have coz she is really a special person !!!! pls answer as soon as possible coz im desperate =(
The most important thing is for you and your girlfriend to do is to get away from the other two.
Instead of sitting, start taking walks during breaks. If the other two try to join you tell them that you have something personal to discuss and if they persist tell them that you want to have some time together alone. Be sure to discuss this plan with your girlfriend and get her to agree before you do it.
Be honest with your girlfriend so she understands.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com