why do i still love him?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i have been with my-boyfriend for 3 years i'm 22 he's 29, i heard from a lot of people that he's been cheating, however i didn believe anyone i trusted him, two months ago i met his friend who set me dow and told me that everything is true, he showed me a picture of a girl that he wanted to get together with they were together on the picture, i told him about it he said it's not true but he dosent want to be with me since i listen to other people, he also said that he needs to rethink our relationship and for me to give him 2 months so he can decide does he want to marry me or not, he dosent call but send text messiges saying that he loves me what do i do?,i have a lot of evidence that he chated i'm so lost please help?

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Either you trust him or you don't.

It sounds like you want to trust him but there is too much evidence to allow you to.

Without trust, you can't have a good relationship. So you are going to have to examine your mind and heart to see whether you trust him or not.

If you discover that you don't trust him then you should leave him.

Hope this works out for you! George

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