What am i supposed to think?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I am 21 i was with her for 2 months then we were apart because she cheated on me. She was smoking alot of pot at this time and quit because she wanted me back, she knew i was against it. She started talking to me again about 6 or 7 months later and we had now been together for the last ten months.
She said she broke up with me because her whole heart was not into it. That she loved me enough to let me go when she was not all there for me. She is having a rough time with friends and school right now. She has told me she loved me since we have broken up and we have still talked to each other everyday. Its been 4 days. Both of us have iniated the conversations. She says if we are meant to be then we will be together in the end, and that everything happens for a reason. She still tells me evrything about her day liek when we were together and it was her idea to be friends. We were not just dating we were each others soulmates and have said so since the break up. Neither of us could go without any contact with the other person. I have told her i did not want to break up and that i still love her and want to be with her. She wont say we will be together again because she says she isnt sure and wont give me false hope. Her mother and me are good friends and she believes we will be together again. I had bought her a promise ring for christmas and she has not taken it off and says she doesnt plan to. She is taking the break up hard just like me. She said if she doesnt want to be with me she doesnt want to be with anyone.
MY question is should i hold hope for us to be together in the end and continue being her friend and letting her know i care for her. And for the record i know she wasnt cheating on me this time. I just need to know if there is hope for us. I cant continue to be her friend if there isnt hope it hurts me too bad when we talk to continue it with no hope for the future.
If there is any more information needed or any questions email me and ill send them back to you
thanks in advance for the help
i don't know if i am supposed to give a name or not so im not going to if you want me to i will tell you.
She seems to still like you.
She is still wearing your promise ring, her mother thinks you'll get back together, and she hasn't ruled out the possibility.
Remaining friends is a good thing to do. It will maintain the contact so that you may slowly grow back together. Don't give up.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com