Is He Cheating?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I guess before I turn this in I have to tell you a bit about my guy. We've been together a year and a half, and up until about a week and a half ago, I would NEVER had believed he'd cheat on me. He's always been up front and honest w/me. When we had been dating a few months, him and a friend went to a club, that I really didnt want him going to. I didnt know they went, but he called me at 3am upset, and told me that he went and he was sorry. So, that's just the kind of guy he is. Well, a couple weeks ago I went on his email, and he sent out his pic (not naked or anything) to some girls on AOL. When I confronted him, he said he'd been online for a couple hours, and he got some random IM's, they asked for pics, he gave it to them, but also told them he had a gf, and that was that. He said he didnt think at the time it was wrong, and if he did, he would have deleted them, because he knows I have his password. Well then last night, I was online, and he changed his password. I confronted hima bout that and he gave me his new one and said he was going to tell me, but he hadn't had the chance. (he worked 12 hours yesterday) Is he cheating? I dont think he would physically cheat on me, and before this, I'd never believe that he's cheating. What should I do??
My advice is to trust him.
He hasn't done anything that much out of the ordinary for you to worry.
Of course, you will want to have a long honest loving and trusting conversation with him on this subject just to remind him of what you expect of him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com