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I like the guy i cheated with more than my boyfriend!!



Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Well, me (16) and my boyfriend (17) have been dating for 7 months now. I love him so much and he loves me too. He is a great guy, he treats me the way a guy should treat a girl. Nothing is wrong with him! I dont understand why I cheated on him. I did though. I cheated on him with a guy he knows really well and plays football with, and he HATES this guy. Also it is my good friends ex boyfriend. It was so wrong of me on so many levels. It started out as flirting..then we kissed. He use to pick me up outside and we would just kiss. Then he broke it off. He started flirting with this other girl and I got soo jealous. I was so sad. I was upset at myself for letting it get to me. Then we started it up again..and it went further. I went to his house and we would make out on his bed. Then it went even further and we made out with our clothes off..but we never had sex. Then he broke it off again! I was just ...so mad! I cant even explain how hurt I was...and still am because it was recently. I think he still has a little bit of feelings for me, and I have a lot of feelings for him, but I have a boyfriend! I don't like my boyfriend as much as this guy. Its sad, but I don't. I don't know what to do. I still like this guy but he knows that he has control over me. How do I get the control over him?




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First thing to do is to get control of yourself.

It's just not going to work for you to have two boyfriends. You have to make up your mind and choose one to focus on. Tell your boyfriend what's been going on. Odds are he will break up with you and make the choice for you.

You second boyfriend seems to mostly have a physical relationship with you and that is never going to be completely satisfactory in the long run. So, you might ask yourself if you really want him back anyway.

Maybe you should start from scratch and forget both of them.

Good luck! George

-- from George
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