will I get my 1 love back?(I miss my exlove)
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okay I know you`ve hear the typical I want my exback because and yes from reading the advice maybe it`s me but I cant find any help okay see a week before valentines day my boyfriend and I broke up and we had a terrible fight so I cried for a whole week then the second day after we broke up me and my friend were at the park and he drove by and looked out the window all hard trying to see if it was me,I was like he could atleast give me time to heal so for that whole week I cried so hard everyday all day.then valentines day caome and it stabbed my heart so bad that I didnt have my love on that special day.so he dosent really want us to contact each other unless we see each other saying have or a friendly stranger wave,so I crossed my fingers prayed and sent him a text message that sated how I was sorry to bother him but really wanted to say happy valentines day,well it came until about 9:30 something and he called saying he was about to go to sleep but wanted to call back and he said happy valentines day and I told him if he needed anything I was there for him and he said okay and I asked if he was okay and he said yeah so he sid he`d called back later on that week,he never called so I sent him another text and I called dumb I know please dont jude me or rub it in I mean I really love him and feel so hard broken he didnt call or anyhitng so today I went to the store and he passed by and I know he saw me but he didnt wave or say hello r anything period he looked the other way and kept on going music all blasting and crap,anyway it made me feel bad.we had our ups and downs but I was always there for him no matter what I asked him how he was doing made sure he was okay and I`m not hiddious I try to keep my self up I dont understand why he could give me atleat one more chance or an altimatem or something I feel horrible I cant stop thinking baout him and my friend always rells me when she see`s him although she never knew we were a couple,he was my love and my soulmate I almost was going to have his baby and now this.it hurts so bad I mean deep deep down to the core some times I dont want to go on,I`d do anything for him please help and thankyou for the feed back
Try becoming his best friend again.
That's a good first step in resolving a breakup. He doesn't seem to mind talking on the phone, so give him a call once a week to ask him how he is doing and to let him know you still miss him. Be cheerful and don't talk for more than 15 mins.
This is hopefully just a beginning to you two getting back together.
I hope so! George
p.s. here is a website with more tips: http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveCat/9
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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