Are we talking insecurity here?!
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hello... well here's the deal: i have a boyfriend i love to bits... i mean, crazy about him, really... the trouble is, we're always fighting and it's always the same thing: he's afraid i might cheat on him, i might like another guy, i might be getting tired of him... but i'm not, and when everything's fine between us i can really show that... but then he can always dig up some little thing i said or did and turn it around against me.. and the little detail missing here is that his ex girlfriend cheated on him... and now i feel like i'm being judged by someone else's actions, or that i might not even be suitable for relationships 'cause i can't give someone the safety and security that he needs. and never even thought of cheating on me...
please help, it's driving me crazy... please...
You are having difficulty with the issue of trust.
Here is an excellent website that should give you insight into your b/f's feelings and how to deal with them:
You might want to ask your b/f to take a look too.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com