Should I just give up???
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. We have always had issues with jealousy and trust (from his end) since the beginning. He always blames me for everything. and would get mad if i talked to other guys, hung out with my friends just basically everything would result in an argument for something I "did". I have caught him hiding a lot of things from me. Phone calls, emails, those "singles" websites he subscribed to. And he always denied them or blamed me.( Because he "thought" I was checking up on him) I know he's lying. He always has. And I feel so stupid for staying with him but something always brings me back to him. I caught him again yesterday because I looked through his email. although it was from Nov. he still did it. I just want to know if I should just leave him already. I'm not happy but I can't seem to leave. I'm tired of trying but I love him and he makes me seem so psycho because he sees that he has done nothing wrong. Is that a big deal? I don't know what he's looking for talking to all of these girls, and he doesn't trust me enough to be honest with me. I don't have any proof of him cheating, but I do have proof of him talking and emailing. Please help...what should I do?
Ask your self "Is this going to be a lasting relationship?"
You will probably answer no since it seems to be hurtful to you.
Now would be a good time to say goodbye and let him go his own way.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com